50 Gay Date Ideas

Thinking of unique and fun date ideas can be challenging, especially when you’ve just met the man of your dreams. There’s often a lot of pressure to come up with fantastic dates that you can enjoy together.

Regular ‘date nights’ or ‘date days’ with your new partner or long-term loved one are important for keeping a relationship fun and exciting. They provide an opportunity to get to know each other better and deepen your connection.

Dates are an excellent way to communicate, bond on a deeper level, and have lots of fun.

If you need help to come up with date ideas, don’t worry! We’ve compiled 50 gay date ideas to help you plan the perfect date night or date day with your loved one.

1. Go to a restaurant. It’s a classic for a reason! Head out for a meal and try somewhere new to create fresh memories together.
2. Go to a concert. Discover your partner’s music taste and enjoy a little dance. Whether it’s a new artist or an old favourite, concerts make for a lively date.
3. Visit a new town or city. Explore a local village or take a day trip to a nearby town or city. This gives you a chance to discover new places together.
4. Enjoy a movie night Stay in, save money, and cuddle up on the sofa with your favourite film. This is a simple, free date night idea.
5. Go-kart racing If there’s a track nearby, this is a fun, competitive way to release some adrenaline!
6. Go to a drag show. Enjoy the entertainment of a drag show, whether on TV or at a local venue. Expect lots of laughs and a great time.
7. Take an online course together. Learn something new and discover each other’s interests. From languages to cooking, the possibilities are endless.
8. Make dinner together. Cooking a meal together is a fantastic way to bond. Try a new recipe and enjoy some quality time.
9. Make pizza. Create your own pizzas for a fun and delicious date night or day.
10. Go out with a group of friends. Introduce your partner to your friends and enjoy new conversations and memories with everyone.
11. Head to the skateboard park. Try out your skills at the local skateboard park for an active and unique date.
12. Go on a pub crawl. Visit several pubs in one night. Try out independent spots or your favourite bars for a varied and spontaneous evening.
13. Visit a family member. Introduce your partner to your family through a meal, drink, or day out, helping you understand each other better.
14. Read together. Cuddle up and enjoy reading the same book, or discover new favourites while enjoying some downtime.
15. Laser Quest Show off your competitive side with a game of Laser Quest, blending fun and action.
16. Go to your local arcade. Play games together at the arcade, from air hockey to coin slots, and let your competitive streak shine.
17. Go on a double date with friends. Double dates can be lots of fun and provide an opportunity to get to know each other’s friends better.
18. Play board games. Rediscover classic games or find unique ones to play together for an inexpensive and engaging date night.
19. Play a game of darts. Friendly competition at your local pub can be a great way to bond.
20. Go bowling Bowling offers a fun, competitive, and social date night.
21. Indoor climbing or bouldering: Try indoor climbing or bouldering for a sporty date. It’s fun and interactive, suitable for all skill levels.
22. Play cards Host a poker night or play card games for a cheap and easy date idea.
23. Go swimming. Enjoy a swim together, chat between lengths, or splash around in the shallow end for a fun and active date.
24. Meet up with other members of the LGBTQIA+ community. Connect with like-minded people for a fun date night or day.
25. Go for a night out in a new city, Experience new bars or clubs, and dance the night away in a different town.
26. Go to the gym together. Enjoy working out together and take care of your health while having fun.
27. Go to the cinema This is an old favourite! The cinema is perfect for a night out with popcorn and a good film.
28. Go for a run together This is a healthy, active date idea that releases endorphins and lets you spend quality time together.
29. Binge-watch your favourite TV show Spend a cosy night in watching TV shows together.
30. Axe-throwing: Try something new and exciting with an axe-throwing session, creating fun memories.
31. Brunch Enjoy a leisurely brunch together, with plenty of delicious options.
32. Go to a football game. Cheer on your team together, whether you’re both a fan or just one of you.
33. Play a game of table tennis. Visit a sports centre to play table tennis – making it a fun and competitive date activity.
34. Make your own drinks. Take a cocktail masterclass or invent your own drinks at home for a creative date night.
35. Do a DIY project together. Tackle a DIY project as a team, creating something meaningful and memorable.
36. Quiz night! Show off your trivia skills at a local quiz night and have fun competing together.
37. Play mini-golf Mini-golf is a fun, light-hearted date idea that allows for plenty of laughter and conversation.
38. Play video games together. If you both enjoy video games, spend an evening playing your favourites together.
39. Go camping Whether in the countryside or your garden, camping offers a romantic and adventurous date option.
40. Order your favourite takeaway Enjoy a relaxed night in with your favourite takeaway meal, perfect for catching up and unwinding.
41. Go to a museum or art gallery Add some culture to your date by visiting a museum or art gallery. Discussing exhibits can deepen your connection.
42. Go skiing Indoor ski centres provide a fun and stress-free environment in which to learn skiing together.
43. Go to a fitness class together. Try a new fitness class, like yoga or pilates, and learn something new while staying active.
44. Go to your local Gay Bar Enjoy a night out at your local Gay Bar, and meet other LGBTQIA+ community members.
45. Go horse racing. Attend a horse racing event, dress up for the occasion, and enjoy cheering on your favourites.
46. Go to the zoo. Spend a day at the zoo, marvelling at the animals and taking plenty of selfies together.
47. Play a game of snooker. Unwind and relax with a game of snooker or pool at a local bar or pub.
48. Go for a hike. Enjoy nature and exercise on a hike, packing snacks for a scenic stop.
49. See a comedy show. Laugh the night away at a comedy show, discover new talent or enjoy your favourite comedians.
50. Go to Pride Attend a Pride event together, either locally or farther afield, for a celebration of love and inclusivity.

Enjoy your time together and make the most of these creative date ideas!